The decline and fall of the West represents a terrible inconvenience...
Thursday, August 21, 2014
Love and marriage...
Many (most?) women are attracted to find a male mate due to basic natural instincts. Once found, the next step is to get pregnant (not normally difficult!) and then the fun really starts.
Sprog arrives. Woman's world is now complete, and biology dictates that sproggy becomes the centre of her world. Husband is ignored and feels reduced to a cash machine role, with no other affection or attention coming from the wife. Eventually, she may return emotionally for another child, and the cycle repeats.
I've seen so many friends endure this, and it always ends in divorce/affairs/acrimony.
Well, it's all pretty obvious really. The middle class marriage described here- currently our society's cultural ideal- is a matriarchy, a female tyranny, all aspects of which are arranged to suit the wife. Which is the point when we begin to understand that Feminism itself is not the plaintive cry of the oppressed, but the demanding whine of a social aristocracy for whom, however much privilege and power they have, it is never enough. You can see it articulated every day here in the "Wonder Women" section, in which the princesses articulate their demands for the world to be arranged so as to revolve around them.
And their doormat-ised husbands are so browbeaten that they can't even admit it to themselves, most of the time.
Interesting Camille Paglia quote with some relevance-
It took most of my life to realize that men are not tyrants or egomaniacs. I had an epiphany in a shopping mall recently that put it all in perspective. I was having a piece of pizza and I saw all these teenage boys running around in the mall. They were wild. I looked at them and saw this desperation. When I was their age I hated those kinds of boys because they were so obnoxious. They are so involved in their status, gaining it, afraid of losing it. I'm glad I don't have to be that age again. So they sat down near me and they didn't notice me. I didn't exist on their radar map. I was thinking, This is great. I was watching. They were full of energy and life. And I suddenly realized, My God, the reason they are so loud, the reason they are so uncontrolled, the reason I hated them at that age is that they bond with each other against women. It was the first time they were able to be away from the control of a woman — their mothers. They were on their own and for this period they're very dangerous. Women have to watch out when they go to fraternity parties, because the men are all trying to up their status among one another and there is all this testosterone.
And then some girl will snag them. And that's it. It's over for them. They get married and they're under the control of their wives forever. You hear these women all the time, on, like, Ricki Lake, saying, "You know, I have two children, but actually I have three children" about the husband, and it's true: The husband becomes a child again. Even when men are doing their share, taking out the garbage, doing the mopping, whatever, women are still running the household. They are in control and the men become subordinate again. So that's what the feminists are so worried about? Men who are subordinated by their mothers and then by their wives? Men are looking for maternal solace in women, and that's the nature of heterosexuality. Now you tell me, who really has all the power?
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